Our Love Story
In a serendipitous twist of fate, Alain and Kirsten's paths converged unexpectedly in Durban, the 23rd of May, 2021. Captivated by the graceful presence of a tall and enchanting woman, Alain's curiosity was piqued. Employing a clever ruse, he orchestrated Storm's playful quest for hot chocolate, a seemingly simple act that would unveil Kirsten's innate generosity and warmth. With his heart emboldened, Alain stepped forward, sparking a conversation that flowed effortlessly, every word tailored to perfection, and every moment etched in their memories. As the encounter drew to a close, a courageous question hung in the air – a date request which sparked the beginnings of a journey of shared moments, laughter and happiness. A journey that could not be stopped by the 600km between them, COVID and looting… Proof that distance, disease and even complete lawlessness could not stand in the way of their love. Over a span of just over twenty-four months, the tapestry of their connection was woven with threads of laughter, understanding, and unwavering devotion. Love blossomed and flourished, laying the foundation for the profound bond they celebrate today. With the grace of divine blessings and the unwavering support of cherished family and friends, they stand at the precipice of forever, ready to traverse life's winding path hand in hand.
Wedding Retinue
Meet our amazing family and friends who will be standing by our side on our big day.
Stephanie
Stephanie West - Sister of the Bride and Maid of Honour. Kirsten and Stephanie have lived with one another all their lives and have always been there for one another, to support, to guide and to help each other through everything life throws at them.
Taneel
Taneel Fynn - Alain's cousin and has become a great friend to Kirsten. Taneel has been there through it all and still sticks with them through everything. She is truly a Gem and has had their backs since day 1.
Danielle
Danielle Markham - Kirsten's Step sister and close friend. Danny has been involved with everything wedding related from the moment Kirsten and Alain got engaged. She has been a God sent and always goes the extra mile to help where she can.
Omitha
Omitha Maharaj - One of Kirsten's Best Friends . Omitha and Kirsten met just over 5 years ago as colleagues. The minute they found out they share the same birthday, they became inseparable. They share a great friendship and have been there for each other through crazy times and great times.
Bradley
Bradley Gaines - Chief Groomsman. Alain and Brad met in the workplace many years ago. Outside of being colleagues, they have developed a close friendship and often advise each other on the matters of life.
Charlton
Charlton Allen - Groomsman. Alain and Charlton have formed what feels like a lifelong friendship. They've developed a strong mutual friendship born out of some crazy experiences. They've watched each other grow from strength to strength.
Alquin
Alquin Bergover - Groomsman. Alain's cousin but also close friend. Bundy is a gem of a guy, supportive and always there to help you see the lighter side of life.
Aaron
Aaron Kasaval - Groomsman. Aaron and Alain met many years ago. A truly resourceful gentleman who is focused, reliable and driven.
Schedule
Saturday 6th April 2024
2:00pm - 3:00pm
Ceremony
Wedding of Alain Thomas and Kirsten West. Ceremony at the Chapel.
Attire: Dress to Impress
The Secret Garden
9 Bisley Rd, Bisley, Pietermaritzburg, 3204, South Africa
3:00pm - 4:00pm
Photos and Refreshments in the Garden
Photos will be taken and refreshments served
4:00pm - 4:30pm
Seating in the Hall
Let's get seated.
4:30pm - 6:00pm
Wedding Reception Formalities
Wedding Party Entrance, Tributes, Speeches and all those lovely things
6:00pm - 8:00pm
Starters, Dinner and Desserts
Time to chow
8:00pm - 11:45pm
Party Time
11:45pm
Husband and Wife say Goodnight
Accommodation Information
Here are some hotel options in the area that we recommend. StayEasy Pietermaritzburg - 50 Sanctuary Rd, Pietermaritzburg, 3201 • +27 33 897 6650 Ascot Bush Lodge - 217 Woodhouse Road, Scottsville, Pietermaritzburg, 3201 • +27 33 346 8910 Regal INN Xpress - 47 Alan Paton Ave, Scottsville, Pietermaritzburg, 3201 • +27 33 345 0488 You can also find a large variety of accomodation on Booking.com, lekkeslapp.co.za and AIRBNB. We'd advise using an Uber to get to the venue, especially if you intend on enjoying yourself. Ps, the road to the venue is not the greatest, so please cater for a drive time of approx 20mins from the main road to the venue.
Our Wishing Well
Should you wish to honour us with a gift, we have set up a wishing well for your convenience. It allows you to contribute in a way you know will truly make our journey together special.
AD Thomas FNB Savings Account Account Number: 6276 5294 162 Branch Code: 250655 Please use your name as a reference so we know who has blessed us. Thank you in advance.
Our Video
Share your photos with us
We would love to create a beautiful collage of memories at our wedding, and we invite you to be a part of it! Feel free to capture special moments at the wedding itself and share them with us – whether it's during the event or in the days that follow. Your snapshots will add even more joy to our celebration. Let's make our wedding day a collection of love and shared memories! Use the below link or the scan the QR code.